Miss. v'll Miss You

Since then college has finished there was an apparent reduction in pace of posts in this blog..! and that is because of lack of motivation which I rather used to have when u were all around I easily could dwell back into all old memories.. but now its getting kinda tougher..! Still to write a post, few occasions are encouraging... Now - an 'about to happen' event is driving force here...

We feel strange only when we fail to foresee the ease & comfort hidden in it for us - Swami Jai ananda

Ya I was talking about people and especially about a girl..!

I still remember the very first time this girl spoke to me [ I doubt if she really does.. :P ], That was after an english lab in 1st year where I played role of Nathuram Godse. This girl was one among very few who appreciated my presentation and congragulated. You know what I was then [ just don't wanna start it all over again ] That applause was very strange, which got me in total surprise and left the traces of emotional strength and pride.

After that..? I don't even remember when second time was.. I never thought about her later and didn't even felt her in class... But I have to admit here.. I started noticing her in 3-2 or 4-1 not sure but some time in between.. when she took paradigm shift in her glamour and appearance with gorgeous attires.. I am not exaggerating because I am not alone here.. many boys felt the same despite the fact whether they would express or not..! She used topic of table very often..

That was when I actually started talking to her in college and in facebook. [ Oh ya she is very famous in facebook.. :P ] But talking to her out of attraction or say self forced interest was for a very short span.. because the way she reciprocates makes you feel that you know her since ages..!

I would like to say "Beauty is not the destiny it was just a medium" between me and her..!

It became complete different scenario with her very soon that is because of the way she reacted to my actions on facebook and in chats.. was very friendly.. She is good natured, well cultured and pure in her words... I don't say I had great time with her because it was very short in real world compared to its counterpart –the virtual .. But those few moments are worth cherishing.. How many has the fortune of spending time with their crush without any interest of further serious relationship :P..??  But I did.

May be that was the beauty of whole thing.. as I was not looking forward for anything.. I don't have to be cautious about my actions and words I can just be myself.. so does she... May be that is what happens in friendship....!

Huh Now that we arrived at a position where she is moving farther in real world.. but facebook is the place for us buddy...!

Will sure miss ya..

Cheers

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'Crush'ed

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I'm glad because "Who is your crush?" wasn't my truth question on the farewell day. Otherwise this post would be neither surprising to you nor exciting to me and to this girl..!


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Those were the lines I wrote and saved in draft when I started this post and obviously it was before the release of year book which revealed the major surprise but still holds the ambiguity. For some personal reasons I couldnt complete this post back then.. but today I was reading a novel called "Anandho brahma" which deals with inner conflicts of a writer which pumped in lot of inspiration to me to get back to my blog.. :)


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"I dedicate this post to my courage and and individuality which were fading bit by bit these days"
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Yes, She was my first and only crush[on a serious note] in my engineering. I do like many other girls, but she was like special. Of course I don't have any feelings towards her right now as I am a changed person. And I'm sure she will be the LAST crush for me as I have made up mind very strictly on certain things..


But things were different then.. I was very amatuer and light brained person with very few things running through my mind and I m sure she was the only important one among them.... and I m speaking about 1st year. [ Just try to bring back image of mine then..! it helps :P ].

I used to stare at her at every possible scenario.. I felt very close and connected.. Its not the first time I felt that but its just second time next to my crush Chaitanya from schooling. its kinda unique feeling twice :P...!

Thinking about attraction and feeling of closeness I eventually figured out the reason for it... Its nothing great but it is simple reson called "Similarity" Yes, I feel she thinks like me especially When I expect it..! though there are no greatest situations to illustrate.. I can remember small actions which convey a lot..!!

She was very dignified and reserved but used to be playful and jovial towards me [ I felt it, not a fact ] which kinda encouraged me...! She is extremely humorous which is exticnt in girls in fact never existed..!:) and she is one of the very intelligent girls I met... Though I spoke to her very less yet found many similarities and intriguing things... may be speaking very less is the reason for it...!


Having said all these the major boost was the rumour I heard that even "this girl had crush on me.."!! As I said it is rumour it can either be true or false..! but now its least important to know about its validity...!



What ever it may be.. she was my amusement in early engineering life.. Later I moved on with many ideas and philosophies and even I lost contact with her very abruptly..! I even heard and identtified a tinge of competetion later.. though I was never in direct competetion with that guy.. I saw his passion towards her..! [ I guess boys know whom I talking about..!] Factors like these might have side tracked me from her..!
Though she is not my crush now...  " I feel that Feel " :P :D

Miss that ignorant life and you.. :P :P


P.S:
This girl and the guy who competed would make a good pair :P :P

this is what my experience was with her.. Yours might be completely different don't try to relate just feel :P



Cheers

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